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    12 Apr 2010

    Giveaway time! Remember this awesome Hello Kitty Vibrator that I recently started offering in the Sex and the Ivy e-store?
For a limited time, enter your email address for a 10% off coupon and one lucky person will receive a coupon redeemable for a FREE Hello Kitty Vibrator. If you win, you will be notified by email. Please reblog and retweet!
(P.S. I have to apologize for being atrociously late at sending out giveaway items from last semester’s Sex Ed series. This will get resolved in the next couple weeks, but shoot me an email if you are particularly irritated by my tardiness.)

    Giveaway time! Remember this awesome Hello Kitty Vibrator that I recently started offering in the Sex and the Ivy e-store?

    For a limited time, enter your email address for a 10% off coupon and one lucky person will receive a coupon redeemable for a FREE Hello Kitty Vibrator. If you win, you will be notified by email. Please reblog and retweet!

    (P.S. I have to apologize for being atrociously late at sending out giveaway items from last semester’s Sex Ed series. This will get resolved in the next couple weeks, but shoot me an email if you are particularly irritated by my tardiness.)

    9 Oct 2009

    Contribute Toward The Next Great Women’s Organization

    As someone who’s rather skeptical of how charitable donations are spent, I’ve only ever given money to a few organizations, including the ACLU and GLSEN. I’m adding another group to my list this week, and I hope some of you will consider it a worthy cause as well.

    The Women, Action, & the Media Conference, also known as WAM! (exclamation mark officially included), is splitting off from the Center for New Words to become an independent national organization. CNW is a prominent feminist non-profit in Cambridge whose programming reflects the diverse groups the organization tries to represent: women of color, disabled women, queer women, poor women, and basically any women outside the American mainstream who has a hard time getting her voice heard. Run by Jaclyn Friedman, who co-wrote Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape with Jessica Valenti, WAM! has been CNW’s most visible event for years and has brought to Cambridge activists, journalists, non-profit leaders, and educators from all over the country and the world. If you’re unfamiliar with the conference, I was at the most recent one and blogged from the panels I attended.

    WAM! isn’t some insidery networking event that only pays lip service to feminism. Instead, its attendees are a diverse group of like-minded media makers and shakers who are passionate about women’s rights and social justice. Conference programming helps young activists find starting points from which to start their own careers, offers practical advice to those want to balance their passion for feminism with financial realities, and trains representatives of organizations without the means to pay for exorbitant PR services. Contrary to some critics who called last year’s WAM! not inclusive enough, I found the other attendees extremely warm and friendly and the organization as accommodating as you could expect a small non-profit to be (my registration fee, for example, was waived by more than 50 percent). Last year’s attendees included representatives from Feministing, Bitch Magazine, Babble.com, Feministe, BlogHer, AlterNet, Our Bodies Ourselves, and a busload of awesomely radical Smith students.

    So what will it take to get WAM! off the ground as an independent organization? Less than a year’s worth of Harvard tuition. Below is an email written by Jaclyn Friedman, who puts it better than I could:

    So far, nearly 75 of you have together contributed $8,636 to help make the new WAM! a reality. And whether you’ve given $3 or $3,000, you’re now a part of a growing movement that will settle for nothing less than complete gender justice in media.

    But there are thousands more of you who haven’t given yet - and time’s running out. We need to raise $30,000 by October 20, and it’s going to take every one of us to get there.

    As Jessica Valenti, founder of Feministing and author of The Purity Myth, rightly says, a gift to WAM! is a gift to yourself, and to all of us:

    The WAM conference has been an incredible resource (and source of inspiration!) for women media makers and consumers for years.  Under the leadership of the inimitable Jaclyn Friedman, I know that WAM will continue to grow, and further social justice, equality and progressiveness in the media.  WAM has given so much to women in the media and beyond for so long: now is the time for us to give back.  A donation to WAM is a donation to the future of women in the media, and really a gift to ourselves.

    Maybe you don’t think you can give enough to make a difference? Think again. Colleen Flannery’s income hovers around the poverty level. Here’s what she told us about why she donated $3 to WAM!:

    • Because I still get into conversations in which women say, “I mean, I’m the furthest thing from a feminist, but…”
    • Because I have a collection of political cartoons featuring Hillary running for president as a desperate harpy in caked-on makeup.
    • Because yesterday someone said to me, “There’s nothing wrong with a woman who knows she’s a woman.”
    • Because people still scold me for jogging at night.
    • Because in my home state of Florida lesbian couples are legally considered unfit to adopt children. Thanks, Anita Bryant!
    • Because Cosmo-feminism isn’t my definition of feminism.
    • Because there were girls in line at the Tucker Max premier.
    • Because conversations desperately need to happen between women of all races, ethnicities, income brackets, nationalities, gender expressions and sexual preferences.
    • Because my emotional life, sex life, work life, and family relationships depend on my ability to rethink femininity.
    • Because the need to find new words and new forums to express an ever-broadening definition of femininity has never been more urgent.
    • Because if we each donate $3, that’s a lot.

    In the next two years, we can launch thriving local WAM! chapters in major cities across the country, which will foster on the grassroots level the kind of cutting-edge thought and action WAM! already inspires nationally. We can build an engaged online WAM! community through monthly webinars on timely topics, a brand-new WAM! website designed to foster action, and of course, our ever-flourishing listserv. And we can ensure that the next WAM! conference — now planned for Chicago in March 2011 — is the largest and most influential yet, creating an unstoppable force for gender justice that will change the media landscape for good.

    I’m not exactly swimming in cash at the moment, so my donation will be in the modest two-digits. But as Jacklyn says, any donation, no matter how small, is significant for an organization of this size, and hopefully, it will be just the first step in getting more people involved. Please reblog, Tweet, Facebook, and email out the news about WAM! As motivation, I’ll be giving out prizes later this week to some of the readers who publicize or donate to the campaign (Just take a screenshot as proof for now — more details to come.)

    Keep on fighting the good fight!

    17 Sep 2009

    Giveaway Winners & New Social Media Contest

    ROUND 1 WINNERS

    I know, I know, I’m a day late. Cut me some slack — today was my first test in my Intensive German class (and I didn’t fail though I didn’t ace it either). But now without further ado, the winners:

    Chelsea B., who wins the We-Vibe, Jeanette B., who wins the C-Case, and Mike C., who wins the Chandra by Emotional Bliss for scoring the most referrals in the bonus contest.

    Congrats to the winners! Prizes (and a request for your mailing info.) will be sent out in four weeks, after the entire giveaway is over, so that I can save on shipping in case someone wins TWO toys ;)

    ROUND 2 CONTEST

    This week’s giveaway is in keeping with the social media theme. I’ll be doing another raffle in which you can earn additional entries. To get your first entry, add Lena Chen on Facebook. You get extra entries for the following:

    +1: For EACH comment you make on either TheChicktionary.com or SexAndTheIvy.com. Max limit: 10 comments or 10 entries. (Just in case someone tries to spam the hell out of me. Please don’t make me put on my moderator hat — I’m trusting you guys, here!)

    +2: For EACH time you tweet the following “Add @lenachen on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/thelenachen) to enter her 4-week sex toy giveaway. Multiple chances to win!”. Max limit: 10 tweets or 20 entries.

    +5: For EACH Facebook friend you refer who links to your profile in their add request. No max limit.

    Each entry gets you a cell on an Excel spreadsheet. Send a count of your extra entries (with links to each tweet and comment) by 11:59 p.m. on Tuesday, September 22nd. No need to track Facebook referrals — I keep a running tab.

    Hamlet, with my assistance, will pick a random cell number (D13, for example) from the spreadsheet to be this week’s winner!

    THE PRIZE

    Tantus Charmer in Pink Pearl

    This week’s prize is from Tantus, who’s made a “dildo designed to hit the G-spot over and over”. The product description notes, “Many people do not know how to find the G-spot. Most G-spot toys on the market are 6” in length, which has led people to think they are supposed to put the toy in all the way, and they end up missing the mark. The urethral sponge is located 1” to 3” inside the vaginal opening, so the Charmer’s many ridges are a guaranteed hit.”

    BONUS CONTEST

    Want to get the first scoop on the next bonus contest? Add me now to be among the first to find out about the prize and details. Last week, I gave my first 50 Facebook friends a three-day headstart over everyone else. Early birds, get on the list now!

    15 Sep 2009

    Last Chance To Enter Round 1!

    Round 1 of my giveaway ends tonight at 11:59pm. How to enter before then:

    1. Add me as a Facebook friend to sign up for Groupon and get an entry in the raffle for these prizes:

    The We-Vibe (Retail: $130)

    The C-Case™ Red (Retail: $16)

    2. For the bonus contest, help me recruit new Facebook friends (and have them include your name in the add request). Each referral gets you an extra entry in the above raffle AND could win you the following prize if you get the most referrals:


    The Emotional Bliss Chandra Finger Vibrator (Retail: $49.95)

    Winners and Round 2 contest will be announced tomorrow!

    13 Sep 2009

    Bonus Prize for Facebookers!

    Not so happy with your chances in a raffle? Have a ton of Facebook friends? If you’re determined to win a prize in my my month-long giveaway but don’t want to leave it up to Lady Luck, I’m sweetening the pot during Round 1 with an extra toy that will be the prize in a merit-based competition.

    THE PRIZE


    The Emotional Bliss Chandra Finger Vibrator (Retail: $49.95)


    HOW TO ENTER
    You have from now until 11:59pm this Tuesday, September 15th to drum up as many Facebook friends as you can for my new account. Make sure everyone you recruit mentions your name in their “Add Friend” message. The person who gets me the most new Facebook friends wins the toy —- fair and square. Start blogging, Tweeting, and Facebooking your way to victory!

    BONUS
    Each friend you recruit will also count as an extra entry for you in the raffle for the We-Vibe and C-Case. If you’re lucky enough to win one of those prizes in the raffle as well, you get both! It’s win-win.

    9 Sep 2009

    The Great Giveaway: Round 1

    Tweet, reblog, and share the news about the first in a series of contests:

    A penchant for high-end sex toys is not compatible with a college budget, but then again, neither is sushi and I’m not giving that up anytime soon. Since even the brokest of dorm dwellers should be able to brandish well-made toys (in my opinion), I’m holding a month-long giveaway, the perfect opportunity for some of you guys to win awesome bedroom gear!

    THE PRIZES

    I’ll be giving away a triple-digit grand prize and a runner-up prize to two readers each week for the next four weeks.

    This Week’s Grand Prize:

    The We-Vibe (Retail: $130)

    A runner up will receive the C-Case™ Red by Big Teaze Toys (Retail: $16)

    HOW TO ENTER

    I just became an ambassador for Groupon, a deal-a-day website which serves nearly every major metropolitan city in the country with regional-specific bargains on restaurants, salons, fashion, and services. Usually, the deals are at a 50% discount or more, so they’re great bargains (and I’m not just saying that because Groupon sponsored a spa giveaway on Sex and the Ivy!). I’m officially Groupon’s Harvard rep, but you don’t have to bleed Crimson or even be in college to take part in this contest.

    To enter this first round, sign up for Groupon by adding “Lena Groupon” as a friend on Facebook. You have until Tuesday, September 15th to be considered in this giveaway, but there will be three more rounds after that with more prizes. Everyone on the friend list of the above account will be entered in a raffle in the following giveaways, so that means FOUR chances to win.

    I’ll be running a different contest each week for the next three weeks (and incorporating social media in a fun way for each contest), so stay tuned on my blog and my Facebook page for more opportunities to win.

    (Entering this contest means that you’ll consent to receiving emails from Groupon, but the service is entirely free and you can unsubscribe at any time. You can also sign up for Groupon on the official site, but only those emails registered with me will be eligible as entries in my giveaway.)

    15 Jul 2009

    Lines That Don’t Work

    I just notified the winner of my July 4th giveaway, but there are too many incredible submissions to not share. The following are some of the most cringe-worthy pick-up lines and catcalls:

    • “hey kitty cat, you’re so cute just like a kitty cat. I’m Josh.”
    • “we can be your ghetto tour guides”
    • “wenn das dach rostet, ist auch der keller feucht” directed at a redhead (German for “if there’s rust on the roof, the basement must be wet as well.”)
    • “Baby, can I see some ENTHUSIASM!”
    • “I would give the world to be that banana” directed at Teresa, who was eating a banana
    • ”you’ll be sweet on tempurpedic”
    • “Hey, I love sushi!” directed at an Asian girl

    Thanks again to Emotional Bliss, who will be gifting the winner with a Womolia Heat.

    2 Jul 2009

    Things Men Have Yelled At My Readers

    Yesterday, I asked readers to submit catcalling stories for my giveaway. According to them, here are some of the pleasantries they’ve exchanged with would-be Lotharios:

    “I’m making a DVD. Have you ever thought about acting?”

    “You WIFEY material!”

    “Hey baby, wanna check out my gun shot wound? It’s so fresh the scab hasn’t even healed.”

    “Hello, pussycita, yum yum!”

    “Pork fry ri!” [“Pork fried rice” in a purposeful Asian accent.]

    The last one is probably my favorite, because it’s just so without context. I’m also partial to “You WIFEY material!” (But I’m choosing the eventual winner at random.)

    1 Jul 2009

    After a lengthy hiatus from Sex and the Ivy, I’m giving away a Womolia Heat ($99.95) from Emotional Bliss to a lucky reader for Independence Day. To enter, comment on the contest entry with your best/worst catcalling story. For inspiration refer to mine.

    Please reblog and link out to your female friends! (Unfortunately, the Womolia is designed to fit the curves of a woman, so boys will have to wait for my next giveaway to score free toys.)

    10 May 2009

    Feminist Review is giving away a set of five books to five winners. All you have to do is leave a comment (with your name and email)  telling them about your favorite book written by an Asian author. The deadline is May 31st.

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