“As Chen also points out, a lot of “rules” like the first-date sex thing are based on the idea that if you do a certain set of things in a certain way, you’ll get everything you want in love. This is the premise of most dating books, and it’s not just inaccurate, it’s pretty judgmental — if you’re not happily coupled up (with your one true soulmate, of course), you must be doing something wrong.”
— Anna North, summing up my stance on dating in a post on Jezebel today (“Social Minefield: How To Have A Great First Date”)
She also interviewed the fab Jaclyn Friedman and Tasha Fierce. The basic gist of the message? Chill out. Be safe. Don’t determine who pays based on gender. Also, if you think “dating” and “husband hunting” are synonyms, you’re doing it wrong.
She also interviewed the fab Jaclyn Friedman and Tasha Fierce. The basic gist of the message? Chill out. Be safe. Don’t determine who pays based on gender. Also, if you think “dating” and “husband hunting” are synonyms, you’re doing it wrong.
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